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Spanking Round Table: Anal Punishment – Hot or Not?

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When I saw this was the topic of this month’s Spanking Round Table discussion, I couldn’t help myself. I had to chime in. What is it about anal–whether for pleasure or punishment–that hits such a trigger for me? And not just for me, but if it’s a discussion, then obviously it’s a trigger for other people as well. Let’s face it. It’s considered by many to be taboo. It’s considered a naughty act that most people won’t admit to…or if they do admit to it, will downplay. “Oh, well I tried it once…it wasn’t for me.” or “Hell no, I don’t do that.” It can be humiliating, slightly uncomfortable to downright painful, and probably the most intimate thing you could ever do with or to your partner, and that right there is probably what makes it a great punishment.

It can take many forms, from rectal temperature taking to butt plugs to anal sex, the punishment is in the mortification of the person who has to bend over and submit, knowing their partner is seeing, touching, and disciplining the “No Zone”.  Which isn’t to say that anal sex can’t be fun. Of course, it can! But when it’s sexy and loving, then it’s just kinky good fun enjoyed by all. When it’s used in conjunction with words such as “naughty” or “bad boy/girl” or phrases such as “You were warned…” or “Obviously, I need to do more than talk before you’ll listen…” or “You brought this on yourself…” then that takes it to a whole new level of stomach-tensing, pussy-clenching (or dick hardening, I don’t judge) dread that at the same time wars with excitement. If you’re anything like me, you’d much, much, much rather be experiencing this as a “good girl” not a “naughty” one. When it’s “naughty”, it can be so much harder to bear. You want to hide your face. You can’t apologize enough, and as the discomfort ratchets each grade higher, so does the remorse.

Look at all the different forms such punishments can take. This is by no means a full list, but only what I can think of at this late at night right before the blog is supposed to post (bad girl, I know).

Temperature Taking:

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Using a rectal thermometer to take your temperature because you cannot be trusted to do it orally like a big boy or girl.

Enemas:

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Having your system flushed with hot soapy water (or worse, cold water) or an old timey solution of milk and molasses. Often used a precursor to other anal activities, let the cramping and bloating begin.

Figging:

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Not only do you have the sensation of having something inserted inside you, but Holy Hannah, the burn! This is awful on its own but used in conjunction with spanking…OW!

Butt plugs:

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Small, medium or large, ridged, veined, penis-shaped, bumpy or spiked, beads of gradually increasing sizes, varying materials including metal, jeweled or plain, hooked, and let’s not forget animal shaped, with lube or without, how long will you have to wear it….decisions, decisions. The only thing that’s certain is when you feel that slow stretch start to happen, you’re going to feel every inch of it going in and it’s going to be in there for a while.

Ben Gay, Vicks, Peppermint Oil, or other burning ointments, lubes and oils:

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Pretty self-explanatory. If you use these, you use them at your own risk. So read up on the pros and cons and, if you use any of these on your submissive, I sincerely hope you’ve also had the balls to first experiment on yourself so you know what you’re putting them through. Nuff said.

Insertables:

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Dildos, strap-ons, vegetables…again, I don’t judge. This doesn’t sound like much of a punishment, until you factor in the size of what’s being inserted…or the material. For instance, a glass dildo takes on a whole new level of hell after it’s been, say, put in a bucket of ice water for a while.

Sex:

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Something happens to sex between consenting lovers when it’s being used to amplify discipline. Again, for me it’s that delicate mixture of pleasure and discomfort, of intense mortification and the mental head-space of knowing this is happening to correct a misbehavior. Not because I’ve been good. Not to give me pleasure. But because I’m being punished. This is a powerful head trip. It’s not just physical–although often a level of discomfort is used to amplify the disciplinary factor.

Do I enjoy anal punishments? No, I do not. Do I get them? Upon occasion, yes, I do. For all of the reasons outlined above, I will say this: I much prefer reading or writing about them in fantasy erotica. For some reason, it’s so much hotter when it happens to the heroine of a story than when it’s happening to me in real life.

There are many awesome authors who have chimed in on this topic. Click here to check out what they’ve got to say on the subject of Punishment Anal.

 
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Posted by on October 9, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

A Stern Talking To

Maren, I says to myself, you have got to be better about updating your blog!

But I don’t have anything interesting to say, I mutter. How do all these other authors keep coming up with so many new and different blog posts? All I wanted to do was write a book! There wasn’t anything back then in my job description that says ‘and keep a fascinating blog’!

That’s because, I snip back, when we first started writing the Internet hadn’t been invented yet. No more excuses! Write something phenomenal! Be brilliant, damn it!

Oh, my God…Have we had enough coffee today for brilliance?!

Fake it, woman!

Groan…sigh… All right, look…I can either write 2000 words today on this blog, or I can put that effort and energy into putting out the next book. Which is it going to be?

…yeah, okay. I’ll brew up another pot of coffee and get the curry started. You figure out where we left off in Stolen Memories…

 
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Posted by on October 5, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

When real life imitates art

Originally posted on governingana:

“What’s happened to Ana Adored?” you might ask.

Ana Adored tells the story of domestic violence and the death of a friend.

Guess what’s been part of my life in the past month?

Sometimes, I think our writer’s brain shuts down and refuses to let us process the art we have created before we knew it would become part of our lives.

I didn’t write the scenes of a character visiting a dying friend; Maren Smith did. Yet Maren has said good-bye to more than one important person in her life, and a few weeks ago I held the hand of a woman who had become my surrogate grandmother. I baked rolls and lemon bars for her memorial service, and I washed dishes and arranged the church fellowship hall along with the others who had known her.

I did write the scenes where characters deal with expressions of anger…

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Posted by on October 1, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

I’m traveling today!

No spankings, good curry and Katherine Deane! Guess where I’m at today? Come and take a look!

 
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Posted by on October 1, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

One Oops and One New Book Release!!

First, the oops. I goofed and I need to correct it.

The Corbin’s Bend Season 2 exceptionally awesome discount package (you know, the one that ends in 4 very short days) is available for a very limited time at 33% off the cover price of all the books. I was mistaken in how the books were going to be delivered. They will not all be available at the same time. However, by buying this package at the discounted price, as each book is published, you will automatically be sent your copy.

Okay, that’s the oops.

Now for the New Release.

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It’s about flippin’ time, isn’t it? I have been working on this book forever, but it’s finally finished and it went live this morning.

On the run from her abusive husband, Karly Whitaker flees across state lines and finally settles in an old mining town called Hollow Hills. Starting over has never been so scary. To make it worse, on her first night in a new place she hits a dog—the biggest, blackest, wolf-like creature she has ever seen. Although he appears more dazed than hurt, Karly takes him home. But while it’s comforting not to be alone, it’s hard to ignore the strange things happening around her. All she wants to do is hide from her husband, Fish and Game won’t leave her alone, her gun-toting neighbor scares her to death, and every morning Puppy vanishes, leaving her to deal with Colton Laurens all on her own. Colton—the dark-haired, honey-eyed Game warden, whose gentlest touch makes her battered heart ache and whose hungry kisses burn her from the inside out. For the first time in her life, Karly knows what it’s like to live unafraid, but with more than ghosts haunting her footsteps, she’s beginning to suspect not everything in Hollow Hills is what it seems…

Karly’s Wolf is a Penny Alley book, which means THERE ARE NO SPANKINGS in it. Only the smallest spanking reference. “If there’s no spankings in it,” you cry, “why are you posting it here?” Because, dear reader, it’s my blog and, damn it, I worked hard on this! I’m proud I’ve finally got it done! And shout out to a fabulous editor, Rose Lipscomb for working hard and late on this for me.

If you’re here for the spankings, more spanking, and only the spankings…well, that’s okay too. I’ve got other stuff in the works and other Maren Smith books with tons of spankings on the verge of their own release date. So please bear with me, they’re a-comin’.

If, however, you enjoy shifter-romances and are interested in giving my alter ego a try, then Karly’s Wolf is probably a good place to start. Available for $2.99 on Amazon only. Click here to read the preview.

 

 
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Posted by on September 29, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

9/27 Saturday Spankings

Yay! One more week closer to the release of the second series of Corbin Bend books! I am so excited, and for two reasons. 1.) I finished my story in time to be included in it. :) and 2.) because they are doing something different with the release this time. For a very limited time, (I believe the deadline is October 3rd), you can buy the entire series for a major discount of 33%. You will still have to wait for each book to be released, but they will automatically be downloaded to you as soon as each title becomes available and you’ll save tons of money.

Click the picture below for full details.

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Now, on to Saturday Spankings! Yay!!

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So here is another excerpt from Have Paddle, Will Travel, my second Corbin’s Bend book which will be released in the above Season Two book set.

The Blurb: When a freak snow storm threatens to cut off the already remote community of Corbin’s Bend from the rest of the world, the residents scramble to get enough emergency supplies from neighboring towns before the mountain roads are closed. It’s sheer luck of the draw that force Ettie and Vance into the same car together. The only problem is, they can’t stand one another. He’s the resident paddle and strap maker, a man known to answer the call of needy submissive women everywhere. She’s a submissive who hasn’t been spanked in four very long years. In his workshop at home, Vance has every implement he’d ever need to win a war like this. In a car in the middle of nowhere with the storm of the century bearing down upon them…who would win this particular battle was anybody’s guess.

The set-up: It’s not their first argument, but it is the first time she loses her temper enough to slap his arm. As Ettie is about to discover, he doesn’t take too kindly to being hit.

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His strength was incredible. Though intellectually she knew, as a man, of course he was stronger than she was, but she was still unprepared for how easily he lifted her, kicking and slapping at him, right off her feet.

“I do not consent!” she bellowed, even as he propped his foot up on the runner and tossed her face down across his thigh. “I said, I don’t consent!”

“You consented the minute you hit me. All I’m doing is returning the favor!” His hand came down full across her upturned backside and it didn’t even matter that there were layers of cloth—pants, underwear, the bottom portion of her winter-heavy coat—between her heart-shaped flesh and his hand. She sucked air and snow, as startled by the unbelievable clap of impact as she was by the sharp pain.

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I hope you enjoy the excerpt. The time for waiting is almost done! Again, Yay!!!

 

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Posted by on September 26, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

9/20 Saturday Spankings Once Again

Boy, has my poor blog been neglected. In my defense, however, I’d like you all to know, I’ve been writing my little fingers to the bone!

Ana Adored – Done, and chapters deep in the editing process.

Karly’s Wolf – Done, returned from editing. returned from the Betas, and final edits finished! It will be published this week! Woot!!!

Have Paddle, Will Travel – Only 2 chapters left to go, and I’m rapidly running out of time.

So, which story am I going to use for this week’s Saturday Spankings clip? Have Paddle, Will Travel – the book I’m writing for Corbin’s Bend Season 2.

The Blurb: When a freak snow storm threatens to cut off the already remote community of Corbin’s Bend from the rest of the world, the residents scramble to get enough emergency supplies from neighboring towns before the mountain roads are closed. It’s sheer luck of the draw that force Ettie and Vance into the same car together. The only problem is, they can’t stand one another. He’s the resident paddle and strap maker, a man known to answer the call of needy submissive women everywhere. She’s a submissive who hasn’t been spanked in four very long years. In his workshop at home, Vance has every implement he’d ever need to win a war like this. In a car in the middle of nowhere with the storm of the century bearing down upon them…who would win this particular battle was anybody’s guess.

The set up: They’re already in the car. Let the arguing begin!

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A caress of needle-like prickling moved up the backs of her thighs and across the stinging surface of her bottom. It was a fight to keep from doing something stupid then, and she hated herself for that—for her sudden inability to give him that one good reason he seemed to need to close the inches between them and just blister her. She hated herself even more because of all the people she should want standing this close to her, threatening to spank her in this ominous and yet oh-so intimate way, why oh why did it have to be this…this…this horn dog?

Vance tipped his head, studying her with dark eyes that saw way too deeply and understood way too much. “Why, Miss Thomas,” he said, his breath pure warmth against her cheeks and his tone as silky as it was smug, “can it be you actually want me to take off my belt?”

“Yes,” Ettie said, in an instant as shocked as he was by the honesty she hadn’t been able to keep locked behind her lips. She went on the offensive and quickly buried that awkward truth under the first lie she could come up with. “Come at me again, and I promise I’m going to strangle you with it.”

 
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Posted by on September 19, 2014 in Uncategorized

 
 
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